Changes are inevitable. Our lives change everyday. We cannot block the change or divert it, we only have to accept the change and move on with it. The changes can be on the negative or positive part. Today I`m going to talk about how you can deal with these life changes.
The first thing you should understand, everyone keeps on growing and as you grow, responsibilities changes. The growth is also a part of a change in our lives. If you observe keenly, you will notice your body size changes, your thinking capacity also increases and more of the new things keep on coming into your life.
When you were young, you never thought you can one day be held up on the responsibilities now you are holding on. Things in life gets complicated. The way your life changes also you have to change some of your habits, and put on the new ones. The behaviors you had when you were still a kid, cannot comply with behaviors when you are a teenager. You will need to shed of some of the behaviors for you to fit in the current situation.
Change always comes with its own price one has to pay for. When the changes comes in a negative way, you have to look for a positive way to encounter it. When the change comes a positive way, you should look for a means to uphold it.
Remember, when your life has no changes, you are having a problem. Let me say for instances you have been living for about five years, and there is no change you made or came in your life, you must find what it is not working right in your life. Try to check your goals. Are you really working on them? Are you following the right path?
You are stagnating, because you have something you have not worked on. When you live your life, you always expect a better change, an exciting one, this will make your life colorful. You will never get stressed.
When you find that there is no change in your life, don`t wait for someone to bring the change, take initiative, change the conditions on your own. Walk bare feet. Sleep in the kitchen, eat cereals for supper, talk to a stranger, spend time in an orphanage, go beach , paint your room purple or any color you like. Make your lifestyle amazing. This will make you some significant change.
The changes in your life should be at a moderate pace. This will enable you to adjust and learn new skills to handle the recent changes. Every change that comes, usually is accompanied by new tactics that require new skills to handle them.
The pace if it will be too high, then you will get yourself stressed, when you are trying to apply something in your current situation, things don`t work out. At the same time you have about thousands of changes you have to fit in.You see, it will be so hard. You will spend so much time trying to fit, you will be wasting your time without understand how the situation goes.
The only solution you have it to say no to some of the changes. Though it may sound so hard. When your friends call you for a party you can say no, when people want to give you new task tell them you have a task to handle. Saying no to these new changes will give you sufficient time to work on the changes that are currently driving you crazy. Consuming your mind and time.
There is also a situation where you will find that your life changes goes in a wrong turn. This is because not all changes will be positive. When you are not careful, you can lose your mind and control too. This may consume you and feel so drawn. This is the cause of pain in life. This brings tears, hopelessness, helplessness and despair in life. Here, is where depression comes in, hatred arises and every look you have on different things turns negative.
Let me give you a perfect way to deal with such a life change. You don`t need new plans to implement in your life. You need to go back to your last code, where you felt your life was on the right turn. Hold on, on your previous code. Be strong and try to negative issues one by one, do not enter the whole you in such a change. This would burn you up. One foot to the older life you were, and one foot in the current change.
Take your time working on one by one on the problem, have a positive look on the negative change, this will give you the energy to work on this change. Never lose hope no matter how hard it is. Seek advises from people who have experience, people you trust can give you a hand.
When the change that comes in your life is amazing. Enjoy your life. Don`t waste even a single second of it. Take notes, do the things that you wished to do. Give charity, thank God. Shape every objective that will drive you at your desired place. Help the people who have negative changes, show them how they can get positive outcomes from their lives too. Don`t mess it up.
To finalize, the changes that comes in our lives, they do come for a reason. We cannot change our destiny, but we can find better way to deal with the changes that they do arise. Note, we also play a big part in the changes that comes to our lives. So let us play it safe and we will enjoy whatever befalls on us.
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Originally published at https://lifebloggerxz.blogspot.com on July 7, 2019.